Premature ejaculation causes and remedies – what are they? If we know the causes then it can give us a clue as to what the ultimate remedies may be that will get to the heart of the problem and fix it quickly.
Premature Ejaculation Causes
Many people theorise as to what the causes may be? Is it due to age (or lack of experience). Can PE happen due to a circumcision? Is PE the result of having some kind of “oversensitive” penile skin?
The ultimate cause of all PE is anxiety during intercourse. If a man has any self-doubt about his abilities to last, his abilities to perform and please his partner or anything else then it will lead quickly to premature ejaculation.
The moment you start worrying then your time to ejaculation decreases. As you realise this then it becomes a vicious circle and your time to ejaculation decreases even more. This is why many guys find it so frustrating how quickly their PE suddenly gets on top of them.
Premature Ejaculation Remedies
There are many remedies available for PE. The obvious ones are anesthetic products. You can use lidocaine or benzocaine derived products to slightly numb your penis and then go for much longer.
Think of the total arousal as being the same as before. Because you last longer, you pay for it in terms of decreased sensation. It’s a bit like taking a glass and filling it half with orange juice and half with water. It won’t taste as great as the OJ alone but it will last longer.
These remedies will work immediately but they won’t fix your problem for the long term.
Why is that? It goes back to the causes that we discussed earlier. They won’t cure your anxiety in the bedroom (although they can help).
For the ultimate PE remedy that will cure your anxiety, you need to try a long term, self-help program. If you lived in Israel, your doctor could refer you to a sex therapist but, alas, this is illegal everywhere else. Instead, you can find a self-help program that will teach you a series of exercises that are designed to help you get rid of this anxiety.
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