As far as sex goes, the subject itself is appealing. But it seems that many guys have a difficult time increasing their sex appeal in all the ways that really matter to women. But today, all that’s going to change.
Sex appeal isn’t just about sex, as I’m sure you already know. The ladies want a man who has it together, both physically and mentally. So examine the following checklist and find out if you have what it takes to turn on just about any woman on Earth.
Phase I
Fitness
If a woman can visually determine that you’re fit, your penis is already halfway inside her. Despite the fact that women list a “sense of humor” first on the list of qualities they look for in a man, a guy with a great body will always get noticed.
If you don’t already, I recommend that you start working out and developing your muscles in order to look healthier and stronger. A fit man is equated with a healthy sex life. Believe it.
Smell
People always talk about having a signature scent, and while I agree that that’s all good, many women have told me that they like the fact that I smell fresh and clean all the time.
In keeping with that theory, shower every morning and make sure your clothes smell fresh. Applying cologne is great, just don’t drown yourself in it. Your objective should be to make sure that you smell clean without having to using Calvin’s help.
Manners
If there’s one thing that gentlemen do, it’s get laid. And if you want to get women, you have to treat each and every one of them as though they’re the only women on Earth.
Open doors, be polite, smile, always let them go first… even if some women have that “feminist” attitude, over 80% of women will fall for your charms.
Dance Moves
Don’t sign up for the Justin Timberlake class for hip-hop beginners , but do take up some ballroom dance lessons. That way, you’ll learn rhythm when it comes to the two-step and, eventually, you’ll become more confident to start dancing in nightclubs anywhere.
Women find men who can dance attractive; there’s no doubt about that. And while you don’t necessarily have to dance like you walked off of a music video set, some rhythm does impress women. They don’t call sex the “horizontal mambo” for nothing, you know.
Confidence
A confident man is a man who has no problem meeting women. The thing is, you need to be confident in all facets of your life, not just business.
Learn to walk with a certain swagger, talk as though everyone needs to hear what you want to say, and portray the image of a man who has it together. Some of the ugliest guys get women simply because they have that air of confidence that other guys lack. Do whatever it takes to develop a confident attitude.
Phase II
Now that you’re the man when it comes to meeting women, you need to make sure that your sex appeal is top-notch in the bedroom as well. Here’s how:
Grooming
Although that rugged look works for some guys, a neat appearance will always impress a woman. But in this instance, I’m not talking about your face — I’m talking about grooming your pubic area.
Obviously, you don’t need to annihilate the hair from your body completely; rather, keep the area neat and trim. You never know when you’ll end up having sex, so make sure your pubic area is welcoming at all times.
Stamina
If you can last for as long as you want in bed, you will be dubbed “the master.” Women prefer men who have control of their sexuality by being able to not only resist them on occasion, but also by being able to last when it comes to penetration.
Increase your stamina in bed by doing Kegel exercises daily, and even practice different sexual arts like Tantra.
Sex Moves
Some guys coin a signature move when it comes to sex, but I think that as long as you’re mildly creative in bed, you will make the right impression sans signature move.
However, as I’ve advised in past articles, it’s very important to cover all the necessary ground; that includes kissing, licking odd areas of her body (like her ankles, her back and her wrist), giving her great oral sex, and of course, engaging in sex positions she’ll love.
Go Forth
In the grand scheme of things, only you can up the ante and figure out what it takes to turn the women who surround you on. I’m only here to provide the ideas that might inspire you to make the necessary adjustments.
So until next time, keep turning the ladies out.
