Every one loves short cuts. And cheat sheets. It’s human nature.
Speaking of Cheat Sheets… Have you gone through the cheat sheets, have you gone through the Cheat Sheets I told you about on day 1. (get them here) In a few days we have a MAJOR lesson on teasing. You should review the Cheat Sheets before the lesson.
Remember what you learned yesterday?
[+} Women use the opinion of the crowd as a short cut to make up their own mind.
So knowing that...
If you could make a girl believe one thing about you, what do you think would most make her want to date you?
That you're rich? That you're packing nine inches?
That you're insanely confident? That you're talented, passionate, intelligent? That you're the energizer bunny in bed?
If you guessed any of these things you'd be wrong for 90% of the women out there.
If you want to get a woman to believe any one thing about you it should be:
[+] That you are wanted by other women
Girls are strange creatures.
They are so unsure of their own opinion that they need to confirm it with the opinion of other women. If they like him I should like him too is the thought that goes through their minds.
So I’m gonna give you a quick list.
These are things you can do to shape the opinion of the crowd.
Think of it as “crowd control.”
Sort of “short cut” until you really get to that point that you are in high demand. And you don’t have to fake it. (You are MUCH closer than you think)
Crowd Control Tip 1: Pictures
Pictures are worth a thousand words.
Take as many pictures of you with hot chicks as you can. I don’t care if these are friends, co-workers, ex girlfriends, prostitutes, or your cousins. So long as they are hot.
The point is to litter your Facebook profile with them.
Used correctly Facebook rocks as a ‘girl getting tool.’ On Day 20 you’ll learn some sneaky Facebook tricks.
Have pictures lying around your house… or even your car. Have pics stored in your phone.
When a girl sees these pictures she’ll see you with all these girls. One message will be delivered to her brain. “I better keep this one before he runs off with other girls.”
Crowd Control Tip 2: Text Messaging
You want to have lots of female friends. Girls that will be texting you a lot. This way when you’re out with a girl you’re getting lots of texts. You appear to be in high demand.
Here’s what you do. When you get a text pull out your phone. Read the text. And then quietly put your phone back in your pocket. Girls will assume its another girl.
After that, don’t pull out your phone for future texts when the beep goes off. Don’t mention the texts. And don’t respond to them. If the woman asks who keeps texting you. Say “A friend.”
Ambiguity works best.
Crowd Control Tip 3: Be Unavailable
One of the tell-tale signs of a “nice guy” is that he is ALWAYS available to hang out.
The bad boy that you learned about in Day 4… he’s usually too busy juggling multiple girls to give any one girl too much time.
Don’t always be available to hang out. And when you can’t hang out don’t give a reason.
If she says “You want to get together Friday?”
Say “Friday’s no good.”
Don’t say why.
You can then say “Saturday works better.” or “How bout early next week?”
Either way she’ll assume that if you can hold off meeting then you must be used to girls like her.
Also. Don’t always answer your phone. Don’t always text a girl right back. Always lead a woman to believe their is competition for your time.
This is crowd control.
Its much more effective than handing a woman a poem you wrote her. Or sending her flowers.
Make it happen!